Have you ever been rejected by a woman right away or after several dates? If yes, most probably you have had appeared too needy and submissive in front of her. Being in a relationship is neither easy nor difficult, in fact what makes it easy is that your ability to learn from mistakes and having a strong belief system. Most men come across too desperate to be in a relationship and those who attract ladies at the beginning, screw up at the latter stage of dating, meanwhile those who can't make the first impression might succeed later but end up being friend-zoned. All caused by some silly but nasty mistakes which in turn makes women walk away from you. Here are the major mistakes you make with women while attracting and dating them.

1. Terrible Body Language
        It's not about looks or how much money you have in your bank account, it's all about your sub-communication! Your eye contact, body language, vocal tone and indifference prove to be essential to intrigue a woman. Most of the guys are not aware of this and end up being the same average guys that she had met in the past. If you fail to intrigue a woman, she will be forced to sustain the conversation with you and she will find some excuses to break the interaction like "Ok. I need to go now", "my friend is waiting, I gotta go. Bye."
Another mistake guys do is "Alpha Male posturing" or a typical movie star posturing. This looks too creepy and would only work on screen. Remember, don't try to impress women, instead have some self respect and think you are already attractive.

2. Neediness and the 'I Love You' Syndme

           Undoubtedly the most common mistake guys do. Asking her to feel you or telling her what you feel is nothing but stupidity. It's advised not to reveal your intentions until you build connection with her.

3. Texting Blunder
         Texting is always fun but it can be an attraction killer too! Too much texting is the biggest culprit here. Men have a stupid habit of texting for hours non stop to women they just met. The more you text, more predictable you become and less charming you will be. Each passing day, she will get bored of you and slowly her attraction towards you will subside. Don't do these mistakes instead text short, interesting and have your own style of texting. Avoid serious topics and discussions via text messaging or other social networking sites.

4. Asking for permission

            Asking a woman's permission for doing something is not a manly thing but you can do this to your boss, principal because that's the norm. To a woman? No. When you are with a woman, you should always take the lead no matter what situation you are in. "Where do we go now?", "can I touch you?" Asking these approval questions will make her insecure and awkward to be with you. If she is a dominant woman, she will take control and you will be her ATM! Be careful!

5. Being too available

         Spending too much time with your girl proves that you are just a random dude who has no ambition and self respect. Too much is too much!

6. Not touching enough
              Women love to be touched but it should be done in a proper manner. But not touching enough could prove that you are nothing more than just a friend.
        
   7. Trying too hard to impress
           Another horrible thing guys do that doesn't make any sense at all. Many guys buy chocolates and flowers, take her to five star restaurants and present expensive  gifts to get her attracted to them. But what happens is the exact opposite.  A lot of money wasted and men in result faultily blame women as Gold diggers.

8. Thinking too much about it
         You meet a gorgeous lady, both of you had fun talking to each other and you return home, texting her like you've never done before, she texts 'good night', you reply 'take care', thereafter you think about her 24x7 then dance like a kid and then you dream about her being perfect for you. You end up being dependent on her and when you realize that she isn't feeling the same, you get shocked and heartbroken. A cool story of epic frustration. Having these kind of blind expectations are not a sign of a strong man. You have to train your mind to focus on something else or anything that keeps yourself busy, so that you don't think about her all the time.

           These are some of the major mistakes men commit while attracting and dating women. They are also human beings like you and have their own problems and hurdles. Neediness, lack of confidence and negativity do not attract women at all. In order to improve, you have to learn from mistakes meanwhile blaming and cursing do nothing but prevent from being successful. Be determined, smart and decisive and do not let emotions take control of you.